Even if guys shower a woman with attention and gifts, sometimes, it is just not enough. Why? Because she does not see you as The One. With many other options, you could end up as just that, one of the options. But you do not have to play the role of an extra when you could be her Only One. The question is, what should you do to change how she sees you?
Be a great listener. You know that women like to talk about everything, be it about their hair, make-up, their clothes, who crossed them, their friends, their nails, anything! Just hear her out and if you know something about what she is talking about, throw in a comment or two. Communication is very important to her and with acknowledging and listening to whatever she is sharing will definitely make you a standout.
Show some independence. Women find a man's independence sexy. So, if you want to impress your girl, stay interesting by keeping your identity intact. You do not have to say goodbye to your hobbies or passions just to be with her. Remember, you would not want to bore her nor lose your identity in the process. Spending time with her is important to make her feel important and loved, but not at the expense of forgetting who you are. Maintain your relationships with other people, do the usual things you did when you were still not together and the more she will come to appreciate the person that you are.
Laugh at her jokes. Often. Yes, the adage "laughter is the best medicine" has a bit of truth in it. In fact, it is what will bring you even closer to each other. You know that men are most often the sources of the funniest punch lines when in groups. Therefore, if your girl attempts to make you laugh, enjoy the joke and laugh with her. There is nothing more pleasant than enjoying each other's company through laughter. Keep in mind that shared laughter is shared memories.
Call her attention when you see she is acting like a bitch. Did it ever occur to you that your girlfriend might just be testing if you will actually call her attention when she does something wrong? It may seem unreasonable, but some women simply do that. For what purpose? Just to see how far her boyfriend will call her out on situations like this, or, if he will just let her get away with it. Of course, if she sees this is something that you frown upon, then she will surely change her bad behavior. But unless you tell her, she will simply feel that it is okay with you. So, flex those muscles from time to time and show her who's the man.
Be a great listener. You know that women like to talk about everything, be it about their hair, make-up, their clothes, who crossed them, their friends, their nails, anything! Just hear her out and if you know something about what she is talking about, throw in a comment or two. Communication is very important to her and with acknowledging and listening to whatever she is sharing will definitely make you a standout.
Show some independence. Women find a man's independence sexy. So, if you want to impress your girl, stay interesting by keeping your identity intact. You do not have to say goodbye to your hobbies or passions just to be with her. Remember, you would not want to bore her nor lose your identity in the process. Spending time with her is important to make her feel important and loved, but not at the expense of forgetting who you are. Maintain your relationships with other people, do the usual things you did when you were still not together and the more she will come to appreciate the person that you are.
Laugh at her jokes. Often. Yes, the adage "laughter is the best medicine" has a bit of truth in it. In fact, it is what will bring you even closer to each other. You know that men are most often the sources of the funniest punch lines when in groups. Therefore, if your girl attempts to make you laugh, enjoy the joke and laugh with her. There is nothing more pleasant than enjoying each other's company through laughter. Keep in mind that shared laughter is shared memories.
Call her attention when you see she is acting like a bitch. Did it ever occur to you that your girlfriend might just be testing if you will actually call her attention when she does something wrong? It may seem unreasonable, but some women simply do that. For what purpose? Just to see how far her boyfriend will call her out on situations like this, or, if he will just let her get away with it. Of course, if she sees this is something that you frown upon, then she will surely change her bad behavior. But unless you tell her, she will simply feel that it is okay with you. So, flex those muscles from time to time and show her who's the man.
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That is all for now. However, for more information on how to get women to think that you are the right person for them, come visit this site, http://www.attract-women.org. I am Michael Scott, I write regularly for the site about dating and relationship concerns. See you!
