There is a magical power in lullabies. Especially when matching wits against the intellect of a precocious 8 year old little girl when it's bedtime. If your children are like mine (and please, for the sake of my own sanity and perspective, tell me they are), this is not bedtime, this is an event; not for the kids, but for the adults involved. While the typical routine of 'clean your room, put on your pajamas, brush your teeth, and get in bed so I can pray for you' might seem like a simple thirty-minutes-or-less task, I never cease to be amazed by the number of spontaneously spun excuses my daughter can devise to resist the bedtime routine.
Go To Bed
"My friend keeps messaging me on my iPod, and I can't ignore her! That would be just rude! You told me not to be rude!"
"I wanted to tell you my Bible verse again before I brushed my teeth, but you were busy and I didn't want to interrupt, so I decided to play with my Barbies some more while I waited."
"I'm going to wear these clothes again tomorrow because Mommy is so tired. Then she won't have so much laundry. That's why I'm not putting on pajamas."
To help deal with a kid who has such an active imagination (and who is obviously clever enough to run circles around us at the end of a long day); we've begun using a process that begins two hours before bedtime and relies heavily upon two things - books and lullabies.
A Storybook And A Lullaby
Roughly two hours before bed - usually right after dinner - we ask her to pick up her room. This, the bedtime snack, putting on pajamas, and brushing her teeth can usually be accomplished in thirty minutes. Then we have her lie down, turn on some soft lullabies, and allow her to read in bed for an hour or more. This allows her brain to relax, and affords us, the weary parents, a little time to recoup for round two.
For quite a while, her favorite 'lullabies' have been from a Steve Deal album - much to my friend's dismay. Steve recorded an a low-vibe set of worship songs, but laments that "people always tell me they listen to it when they fall asleep or as their grandmother passes into the Hereafter". Nonetheless, I'm grateful as it has greatly eased the stress of bedtime for my entire household - except on nights when the excuse is, "I forgot to charge my iPod! Can I stay awake long enough for it to charge so I can listen to Steve's lullabies ?" How do you argue with that... especially when it's your wife?
Go To Bed
"My friend keeps messaging me on my iPod, and I can't ignore her! That would be just rude! You told me not to be rude!"
"I wanted to tell you my Bible verse again before I brushed my teeth, but you were busy and I didn't want to interrupt, so I decided to play with my Barbies some more while I waited."
"I'm going to wear these clothes again tomorrow because Mommy is so tired. Then she won't have so much laundry. That's why I'm not putting on pajamas."
To help deal with a kid who has such an active imagination (and who is obviously clever enough to run circles around us at the end of a long day); we've begun using a process that begins two hours before bedtime and relies heavily upon two things - books and lullabies.
A Storybook And A Lullaby
Roughly two hours before bed - usually right after dinner - we ask her to pick up her room. This, the bedtime snack, putting on pajamas, and brushing her teeth can usually be accomplished in thirty minutes. Then we have her lie down, turn on some soft lullabies, and allow her to read in bed for an hour or more. This allows her brain to relax, and affords us, the weary parents, a little time to recoup for round two.
For quite a while, her favorite 'lullabies' have been from a Steve Deal album - much to my friend's dismay. Steve recorded an a low-vibe set of worship songs, but laments that "people always tell me they listen to it when they fall asleep or as their grandmother passes into the Hereafter". Nonetheless, I'm grateful as it has greatly eased the stress of bedtime for my entire household - except on nights when the excuse is, "I forgot to charge my iPod! Can I stay awake long enough for it to charge so I can listen to Steve's lullabies ?" How do you argue with that... especially when it's your wife?
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You can also fall asleep to Steve's Lullabies if you wish. They're available at most major retailers online. You can also find other Worship Music albums featuring music by Steve Deal and the Steve Deal band. Be sure to check them out, start about ten minutes after she goes to bed. I usually sign off with Good day, but in this case goodnight. Blessings.
